Hi! It’s been a while. My name is Bethany for those who have forgotten, or didn’t know in the first place. I have a two-year-old, and she basically is my life right now. We were out of town for a month-long vacation (okay, 2 weeks and change) in August, and by the time we got back, there was no slowing down. September was fast and furious (with a few changes), but we are getting into a rhythm, and life is starting to settle down a bit.
We had a week from getting back from vacation to Ellis starting preschool. Let me tell you, I couldn’t have been more excited. The transition to school couldn’t have been more smooth and easy. Unlike other classmates who would kick and scream all the way to the classroom door and then scream and fight to run back out the door, Ellis completely dismissed me the moment she walked through the door. And the only reason she gets excited to see me at pick up time is because my arrival means she can go play on the playground. The playground is right outside the classroom, so there is no avoiding it. Ever. Rain or shine, she demands to play before agreeing to leave. I’ve done the whole dragging her kicking and screaming to the car, but it’s not fun for either of us, so I just schedule it into our pick up routine. She was initially going two mornings a week, but we switched to three mornings halfway through the month. It’s so nice to have those couple of hours in the morning to run errands and get housework done when I’m at my most productive.
In addition to preschool, Ellis was promoted to Sunday school at church. Now she gets to learn a little Bible lesson and do crafts in her own classroom instead of going to the nursery on Sundays. She’s in the same room as her classroom for preschool, so she’s very comfortable being dropped off. I’ve signed up as a helper, so I’m excited to see what they do in there.
We “graduated” from Financial Peace University in July, and at the start of September began a new Wednesday night study. We were going back and forth between the marriage study and the membership class. We decided to put membership on hold and focus on the more important issue of our marriage. We also wanted a place to meet other couples and find new outlets for fun and socializing – something we’ve been lacking lately. This is a really fun, caring group of people, and I’ve already grown and changed my perspective on marriage to Travase in a positive way.
Let’s see… I’ve put teaching Sh’bam on the back burner for obvious (or not so obvious) reasons. Did you even know I taught Sh’bam? Do you even know what Sh’bam is? I’m going to guess not, so I’ll fill you in. It’s a 45 minute dance workout set around “popular” songs and simple moves that anyone can pick up. If you like to dance, you’ll like this class. If you claim you have two left feet, well, you’re harder to convince. The majority of my Tuesday morning class is made up of AOAs (active older adults), so I had been teaching low impact to them for a while, but I still had to give that class up because it’s a 30 minute drive (hour round trip) for a 45 min class, and with Ellis starting preschool, I didn’t want to be unavailable if the school were to call and need me to get there ASAP. Also, my endurance was slowing down, and my bladder was holding me back, so I had been asking other instructors to team teach with me. We’re paid so little as it is, that it wasn’t worth the gas money. I miss it, but I can always get back to it next year. I’ve been doing yoga/pilates/bodyflow and bodyvive to keep up with my fitness regimen.
And finally (I think), Ellis started swim lessons. We started out taking a “Mommy and me”-type class at our Y, but having me with her made her unreceptive to the swim instructor and all the skills she was supposed to be practicing. Though we are still doing that, I also signed her up at a swim school that has gotten a lot of positive reviews from other families. It’s a bit of a drive, but it’s 30 minutes once a week, and Trader Joe’s is only 10 minutes away, so I have an excuse to get some shopping done there before we head to her lesson. She’s only had two lessons so far. Her first one, they did a ton. It was just her and another girl her age, so they each had their own instructor. She was dunked more times in that half hour than in her entire life. The second class was a far less pleasant experience. There was only one instructor to 3 girls, and one of the girls looked at least twice the age of Ellis and the other girl. They basically sat on the edge the entire class, and then five minutes till the end of class, Ellis’s swim diaper leaked, and there was a major poop catastrophe.
Oh, I didn’t even mention potty training! That’s happening. She’s been out of diapers and in glorified diapers (pull ups and training pants) for a couple of weeks now. That deserves its own post! And we’ve been listening to the Frozen soundtrack on repeat. I practically know all the lyrics now, and by gosh if those songs don’t grow on you! You think it’s annoying until you hear your two-year old singing it and realize that’s reason enough to have kids. It’s the most adorable thing ever.
The weather is starting to cool off a bit, and it’s October, my favorite month, so I am looking forward to all the new memories we’ll be making in the coming weeks. For now, you’re basically caught up to speed. Hope all is good in your world. ‘Til next time!